Grave with the Hands

Grave with the Little Hands
Graf met de handjes
The monument in 2016
Interactive map of Grave with the Little Hands
LocationBegraafplaats Nabij Kapel in 't Zand, Roermond, Netherlands
Coordinates51°10′52″N 6°00′01″E / 51.18114°N 6.00014°E / 51.18114; 6.00014
TypeFunerary monument
MaterialLimestone, sandstone, hardstone
Completion datec. 1888 (1888)
Restored date1972, 2015–2016
Dedicated to
  • Josephina van Aefferden
  • Jacobus van Gorkum

The Grave with the Hands (Dutch: Graf met de handjes, lit.'Grave with the little hands') is a 19th-century funerary monument in the Dutch city of Roermond. It comprises two almost identical tombstones on either side of a wall separating the Catholic part from the Protestant part of Begraafplaats Nabij de Kapel in 't Zand (Cemetery Near the Chapel in the Sand), each with a carved arm and hand that clasps the other across the wall. The monument marks the graves of Josephina van Aefferden, a Catholic, and Jacobus van Gorkum, a Protestant, who were married in life, but had to be buried in separate sections of the cemetery. It was listed as a rijksmonument (state monument) in 2002.